1. both of u must love each other no matter what happens. and also love ur little brothers and sisters if any.
2. regardless of your differences, both of u must resolve them and give support to each other in times of need.
3. do not quarrel about money. there will be enough to use and go around.
4. rent out la casa and get the rent every month instead of selling it. split the rent equally among urselves.
5. there will be bad times and good times. have enough patience and guts to ride out the bad times and you will be able to reap the benefits.
6. find a job that u enjoy doing. do not find a job for the sake of working.
7. bring up ur children like how u would have hoped to be brought up.
8. stay near each other so that in times of need, both of u will be near each other. the chinese has a saying. the water that is far cannot save the fire that is near.
9. stay healthy. eat healthy and exercise regularly. no matter how much money u have, it cannot buy u health.
10. eat wisely. eating too much will do u no benefit and eating too little will do u much harm.
11. regardless how old both of u are, u are always papa and mummy’s little children.
12. master ur languages, it will bring you far next time.