Just some tots

yesterday i learnt that money is not impt. if it was, my frens in the company would not have left the company. Kevin took a 40% pay cut to become a teacher. why i ask? he says, since he is changing job, then must change to a job with satisfaction. totally agree..
i also always think that we only live once, and only for about 70 years. i am already almost half way there. if i dont start to “enjoy” my life, when will i start?
but yet all must be put into context. not everyone can be like tianwei whom is going to travel ard the world after he leaves. i have a dad in old folks home in jb, an ageing mother who probably cant work for long. not to mention Ashlyn and one more baby coming up. so how can i live a life that i want to? i grew up knowing that the only way out of the cycle is to study hard and work hard. so i guessed i have finish the first part and now i am fulfilling the second part. its just a matter of time i guess, before i can cut down on my liabilities and increase my assets. until then, i will just have to work hard! =)
ashlyn is nearer the “terrible” two.. its not terrible at all i feel. she may be playful, but now she can hold decent conversations and understand things. she also is very sticky to me and dear dear. that i feel is something that will change once she is like 7 years old? she will be more independent and will not need/miss us as much… well, now she is sitting on my lap and i doubt i can type some more! bye!