some stuff to tell them

1. both of u must love each other no matter what happens. and also love ur little brothers and sisters if any.

2. regardless of your differences, both of u must resolve them and give support to each other in times of need.

3. do not quarrel about money. there will be enough to use and go around.

4. rent out la casa and get the rent every month instead of selling it. split the rent equally among urselves.

5. there will be bad times and good times. have enough patience and guts to ride out the bad times and you will be able to reap the benefits.

6. find a job that u enjoy doing. do not find a job for the sake of working.

7. bring up ur children like how u would have hoped to be brought up.

8. stay near each other so that in times of need, both of u will be near each other. the chinese has a saying. the water that is far cannot save the fire that is near.

9. stay healthy. eat healthy and exercise regularly. no matter how much money u have, it cannot buy u health.

10. eat wisely. eating too much will do u no benefit and eating too little will do u much harm.

11. regardless how old both of u are, u are always papa and mummy’s little children.

12. master ur languages, it will bring you far next time.

Emotional Will

Read about this in the straits time. Based on recent happenings i had to write one for my wife and kids. i have been meaning to write one but no time.

thanks dear dear for keep me sane during difficult times like this and supporting every decision that i make. be it good or bad. i love u cause u help keep the house intact when i am running about with my job or for my family.

ashlyn and aiden, papa loves u and really wish that both of u will grow up to be good boy and good girls. school results are important as they will give u a good headstart in lift. but ultimately, it all depends on yourself after you leave school. so go to school, be good and make lots of friends there. they will stay with you for life and support you through your darkest times. mummy and papa have tried our best to bring both of you up to the best of our abilities. but we are not saints and we make mistakes along the way too. be good to your mummy and grandma as they have put in a lot of effort to take care of you and provide you with the best they have.